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The Blame Passing Game

Posted in America, Britain, Child Discipline, European Union, Government, Insurgents, Muslim, News, Teens, Terrorism with tags , , , , on 22/02/2015 by floroy1942

It was a surprise to read that the parents of a girl who went to join ISIS a year ago are blaming the government for their daughter enticing three teenagers who have been missing for a week to join her.

The three girls, Kadiza Sultana, 16, Shamima Begum and Amira Abase, 15 were last seen on CCTV at Gatwick Airport and are thought to be on their way to join ISIS. They  told their parents they were going out for the day and disappeared, but it is now known they took a flight to Turkey, a staging post for those heading to Syria, and ISIS.

Aqsa Mahmood

Aqsa Mahmood

The daughter of the parents making the complaint, Aqsa Mahmood aged 20, left her family home to become a ‘Jihadi Bride’, and has been in Syria for about a year. It is thought she was in contact with the three missing girls via the internet and persuaded them to join her.

In a statement the family said, “The UK’s security services have serious questions to answer. Aqsa’s social media has been monitored since she disappeared over a year ago, yet despite alleged contact between the girls and Aqsa, they failed to stop them from leaving the UK to Turkey, a staging post for Syria. Sadly, despite all the government’s rhetoric on Isis, if they can’t even take basic steps to stop children leaving to join ISIS, what is the point of any new laws?” My reply to that is, what did they do to prevent their daughter going to Syria?

Misguided Youth

Misguided Youth

Currently it is estimated that some 50-60 women/teenagers have travelled from the UK to join the jihadists and that number is expected to grow. On arrival they join others from a range of countries, including the US, Austria, France, the Netherlands, Canada, Norway and Sweden.

Most of the contact is via social media websites such as Facebook, Twitter etc, where they are offered advice, support, and help with travel. These websites are a source of propaganda for ISIS that presents idealised notions of an Islamic life and jihad. Once there they are quickly married off to jihadist fighters and some have even taken up arms and become fighters themselves.

But to get back to my opening statement, I do find it extremely presumptuous of the parents of Aqsa Mahmood to blame the government for these defections to ISIS. It gives the impression that they themselves bear no responsibility whatsoever for their daughters actions. I disagree with that most strongly, for in my opinion they have no-one to blame but themselves and should accept full responsibility.

Take A Lesson From This If You Are A Parent

Take A Lesson From This If You Are A Parent

The government does not bring up children, does not teach them right from wrong. That is all down to the parents and them alone. It is they who are solely responsible for raising their child in the right way, and had they done that she would not now be with ISIS. Insofar as the religion is concerned, it is also the duty of the Imams in the mosques to do their part in teaching these young people that Jihad is not the correct path.

The parents contend that the government should have stopped her from travelling to Syria, but what they forget is, the government does not have the legal right to prevent someone getting on a plane if they are over eighteen and have committed no crime. Plus the fact, why should the government be watching what every Muslim teenager does just in case they are going to join ISIS?

William Hague

William Hague

Leader of the House of Commons and ex-Foreign Secretary William Hague said during an interview, “More has to be done by all of us to stop vulnerable youngsters from being radicalized. From families, from mosques, religious leaders and of course the government we have all been very busy in communicating the dangers of travelling to Syria.” He went on to say, “There’s been a lot of criticism over the last year of the government doing too much surveillance and it’s been difficult to get agreement on powers to update the government’s powers to intercept communications. This can be an example of why it is necessary to be able to do that in some cases.”

It just goes to show you can’t have it both ways. You cannot blame to government for these people travelling to Syria on the one hand, and then blame it for being too intrusive when it monitors communications to find them before they leave!

Naughty Child

Naughty Child

It is all too common these days where children in general seldom get taught right from wrong. All too often the kids are left to their own devices just so long as they are quiet and out from under their parents feet. In very many cases today the idea of teaching them respect, morality and honesty from an early age is as foreign as a Muslim taking Holy Communion.

But such is the state of parenting today, that children get led onto the wrong path in life and their parents know nothing about it until the crap hits the fan. Then they are all too ready to blame someone else for their own failings.

In my view, if all these teenagers had been brought up properly this would not have happened, and they would still be at home looking forward to a fruitful and productive life.

Roy.

British Political Correctness Gone Mad – Again!

Posted in Arab, Britain, Children, England, Free Speech, Germany, Government, Human Rights, Immigrants, Immigration, Insanity, Islamic Revolution, Modern World, MP's, Muslim, Parenting, Parliament, Relationships, Religion, Sharia Law, UK with tags , , , , , on 16/11/2010 by floroy1942

An Early Learning Centre Shop

Once again the English sickness of political correctness has surfaced in the most ludicrous of ways. It came to light today that outlets of the Early Learning Centre (ELC) had removed a pig from a farm set for children so as not to cause offence to Muslim and Jewish parents!

A Child's Toy - Such An Insult?

The play set for toddlers called Happyland Goosefeather Farm normally contains a cow, sheep, chicken, horse, dog and pig along with assorted farm buildings. The omission was discovered by parents buying the toy who found the pig was missing, even though a sty and appropriate sound affect was there.

One enterprising mother contacted the ELC asking why there was no pig. The reply got her to boiling point very quickly; “Previously the pig was part of the Goosefeather farm, however due to customer feedback and religious reasons this is no longer part of the farm.”

It would seem the company exports the farm toy to many other countries and they had negative feedback from certain ones (Islamic no doubt), so for this reason the pig was scrapped. Now, after many complaints from UK parents, they have decided to reinsert the pig and not sell to those countries that object to it.

That’s what they should have done in the first place!

As one parent put it; “If you don’t like the pig, don’t buy the set”.

The Offensive Animal

In the sixties and seventies, the age-old children’s nursery rhyme Ba Ba Black Sheep was banned for being ‘racist’ because it mentioned the dreaded word black, this was a time when racial relations between black immigrants and white folks were not at their best. Now, because we have so many Muslim immigrants we are going down the same path! How stupid can you get! Some righteous ‘holier than thou’ people have even voiced the opinion that Christmas should be banned because it ‘upsets the Muslims’.

A Man With A Job To Do - Can He?

It is my sincere desire to see Cameron and his government stop this insane phobia among certain members of the British public by laying down the law, and if necessary changing our laws to prohibit such stupidity.

The governments message to any immigrant who comes to live in Britain should be: If you don’t like our culture, go back where you came from.

Multi Culturalism - You Must Be Joking!

I know the British have a reputation for being ‘laid back’ but when the nation pampers to immigrants we do ourselves, our country, and our culture tremendous harm. These acts are carried out by narrow-minded people who are mesmerised by the fact that we have become a ‘multi-cultural’ society. That’s bullshit, for as Angla Merkel of Germany recently pointed out, multi-culturalism doesn’t work (see my blog of 26/10/2010), and all the ass-kissing in the worlds will not change that!

It is no wonder the Muslim population is convinced they will rule Britain before 2050 for we are handing it to them on a plate. We are already on the slippery slope solely due to the disparity in the birth-rates between ethnic Brits and Muslims (theirs being three times ours), but some people seem to want to hurry the process by denying our basic customs and freedoms.

The Once Proud Symbol Of A Once Proud Nation

When will the rank and file in Britain wake up to the fact that our entire culture is soon to disappear forever, swallowed by the monster that is Islam and Sharia Law.

Churchill will be turning in his grave!

Roy.

Social Networking – A Parents Dilemma

Posted in Child Abuse, Children, England, Justice, Modern World, Relationships, Teens, UK with tags , , , , , , , , on 10/03/2010 by floroy1942

Social network sites like e.g. Facebook, have been around now for quite some time and attract a huge following, especially among the young. In light of events over the past couple of years, many parents with young children, in particular girls, are in a quandary as to what to do about it. With ever increasing use of these sites by pedophiles it is extremely hard to protect youngsters from these preying perverts.

An Innocent Victim

Just recently in Co. Durham, England, a young 17 year-old girl called Ashleigh Hall was raped and brutally murdered by a pedophile called Peter Chapman after he persuaded the girl to meet him using a social network site. Like most of his kind he was trolling the social networking sites looking for innocent young girls he could pull into his evil web. Men of his ilk pretend to be young attractive males and are well into the sort of language used on the internet by the young.

For example, you or I would have no idea what A, S, L means, but in teen-speak it means Age; Sex; Location. Most pedophiles are adept at using the right language and tactics to get any girl to meet them. In cases where police officers have pretended to be a young girl, many of these perverts make no bones about what they are after and are quite blatant. Some will make it clear they are after sex or a webcam show, and others just want an audience while they masturbate on webcam.

Most people now know the shocking details of the Ashleigh Hall case so I won’t go into it here, but suffice to say that Chapman is just one of thousands of evil men who use the social networking sites to find victims. They have become adept at searching out those young girls who are vulnerable through their own curiosity, or feelings of inadequacy. It has become the ‘Holy Grail’ for predatory perverts.

As a parent it is extremely difficult to police the use of such sites as Facebook with young offspring. If you ban them from using it they will most likely go to a friends house and use it behind your back, but if you allow them unrestricted use they may fall prey to sick individuals like Chapman. The sticking point is to find a happy medium between the two extremes. Unfortunately, if you look in on your darling while she is chatting there is no way of telling if the young man she is in contact with is the real thing, or a pedophile. Even she would not know unless it was a friend she already knew.

Peter Chapman

Many pedophiles pretend to be a boy about the same age, or slightly older than the girl they are trying to entrap. Part of the scam is to use photos of some good looking young man with plenty of muscles, and in many cases its hard for girls to resist the charms of the ‘young Adonis’. They often set up another false identity as a young girl with whom the victim can converse, and they will of course confirm that the ‘young man’ in question is ‘a dream come true’.

They rely a great deal on the natural human instinct of curiosity in a young teenage girl regarding sex. Girls, and for that matter boys too, hear all about it from friends, see it at the movies and on TV and then the natural curiosity factor takes over. They want to try it just to see if its as good as everyone says it is. Like learning to walk, it is natural. You can warn them all you like, but the ‘Curiosity Factor’ must be satisfied.

When I was a young man these problems were non-existent, not only because we didn’t have computers, but there was a sense of

Pregnant Teen

Morality that has since been swept away. Children today are bombarded with sex from all sides, Videos, TV, movies, and not forgetting the computer. The liberalisation of our modern day society has its price, as we see with the number of unmarried teenage mothers and a terrible increase in sex crime. The one goes with the other, and to put it another way ‘You cannot have your cake and eat it too!!!’ (As a saying I always found that one a bit weird. Why would you have cake if not to eat it? Never mind, the meaning is however clear.)

Personally, I find that more responsibility should be taken by the sites themselves. They are after all the ones who provide the service for youngsters and should carry some of the responsibility for policing its use. I often wonder why the I.P address of every person you are in contact with is not automatically logged and saved on your computer along with dates and times? Why for example cannot the, e.g., last five chats you have not be stored in the computer memory for a period of perhaps a week or a month automatically?  It should not be too difficult to amend social network programmes to do this when people join. A statement to the effect that these measures are taken when people sign in to the site may prove enough to deter these animals.

Who Are You Chatting To?

Such measures may not stop the children from making silly and sometimes deadly mistakes, but it will give the predators some food for thought, knowing their IP address and last chat is stored on the victims computer. It will also make it easier for the police to track down any individual with a dubious character if a crime does take place. It’s just a silly idea I have that may be possible, but only a computer expert (of which I am not one) will be able to give a definitive answer on its feasibility. If you are a computer expert, perhaps you would like to comment on the possibilities of such an action!

There is one other thing that can be done to put a stop to this evil; the castration of all convicted pedophiles without the right of appeal. If it doesn’t put the fear of God into them it will at least make sure they don’t do it again.

Without a doubt, in these troubled times definitive action is necessary to stop these evil men from destroying the lives of our young girls.

What say you?

Roy.

P.S. A newspaper report by the Daily Mail, which first broke this story, is in trouble with Facebook who are threatening to sue The Mail over the piece that formed the basis for this blog. In order to ensure I do not get sued I have made a few changes. It would seem the Mail news item was not intended by the author to target Facebook as such, but this decision was taken by Mail editorial staff. Face book have said they feel their image has been damaged by the report and thus feel entitled to take legal action. The Daily Mail did change the title of the piece after objections were voiced, and have since printed a public apology.

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